“There comes a time when the giving turns inward-not from selfishness but from soulfulness”
Reclaiming Life, One Step at a Time
From my very being, my life was centered around giving, doing, and putting others first. And, I have no regrets. But in doing so, I set aside my dreams and desires. Somewhere along the way, I slowly disappeared into the roles that I carried. I’m now on a quest to reclaim those aspirations that were set aside – and the deep joy of living for myself, not just for others.
I spent more than half of my life in a foreign land, carrying the weight of responsibility, making silent sacrifices, but with pride. I built, I provided, and held everything together.. My story thus far was shaped by duty, strength, resilience, and survival.
Why I started Roaming Soul Tales
Now, the responsibilities that once filled every corner of my life are easing. And in that space to fill the void in me, I am ready to reclaim what I set aside, my joy and sense of identity.
This blog, RoamingSoulTales, was born with that intention. Through travel, photography, and reflection, this space is to document that journey and inspire others along the way.
What It Means to Reclaim My Life
To reclaim my life isn’t about escape; it’s about returning to who I am.
Not to a title or a role, but to the woman underneath it all. A woman who is no longer just surviving, but becoming.
Sometimes reclaiming looks like a quiet walk alone in a park, traversing the aisles of Ikea with earnestness of finding something aesthetic, or being spiritually lost in the grandeur of old temples in peaceful solitude. Other times, it’s as simple as enjoying a cup of coffee in an unfamiliar town. It’s about being fully present – no longer lost in the mental weight of constant responsibilities. It’s in the stillness that I slow down enough to photograph a moment doing what makes my soul feel alive. Or simply writing – like this – and finally hearing my thoughts without judgment and interruption.
This blog, RoamingSoulTales is where I will share that path:
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- Soul Tales, stories that I weave while travelling or otherwise
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- Soul Snaps, the photographs captured through my lens, paired with thoughts that reflect presence and sustainability
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- Roamer’s Log, the raw, behind-the-scenes moments, quick travel notes, tips, and soulful spontaneity
Reclaim Isn’t Just a Word – It’s a Return
If you have spent years giving to others and now feel the quiet pull to reclaim your time, your dreams, or your peace, I want you to know you’re not alone. There is beauty, strength, and courage in starting again, even quietly.
This space is for that kind of journey. Unfiltered – just honest, soulful, and personal.
Let’s Begin, Together
Have you experienced a similar shift in your life? Nevertheless, please leave a comment to share your thoughts.
Here’s to becoming who we were always meant to be.
Shifting focus is very important in life to a fulfilling life…afterall it’s one life and I’m glad you are doing that. All the best with “Roaming Soul Tales”
Looking forward to reading and experiencing more soulful tales……
Thanks so much for stopping by and your best wishes. Appreciate it.
Radhika garu, I must admit that this piece penetrated my soul deeply. It feels your writing is not simply a narration but captures a very real transformation so many women go through without sharing. I admire the fact that you framed “reclaiming” not as a form of protest but instead a gracious return to the self.
That line you wrote “not from a place of selfishness but from a place of soulfulness” resonates with me the most. It reminds me, in the softest of all ways, how women who have been selfless to the point of losing themselves, need this reset.
Your blog in particular has the makings of a beautiful sanctuary, a space for the reflections that turn into beams of light ready, for those who were slowly walking, to run. Wouldn’t it be nice to include montages of your voyages, showcasing a “Soul Spot of the Month”? I sincerely believe your audience would relish that as much as they do your prose.
I once again admire how you have begun this new journey so openly. I cannot wait to go along with you through RoamingSoulTales, one honest and healing step at a time.
Wishing you all the best as this beautiful blog blooms into something truly meaningful — not just for you, but for everyone lucky enough to read it.
With admiration,
Rajesh
Love your suggestion about showcasing a “Soul Spot of the Month” that I certainly hope to incorporate as the Blog evolves. Your keen observations of the blog post and kind words have boosted me even more to keep giving my best to this new endeavour of mine. Thanks again for stopping by and taking the time to comment.